On the Web, wherever you stick, you will surely come across an article in the spirit of “10 things that men want from a woman,” and it will certainly emphasize that the woman who will give them all this, men will consider ideal. And we tell you that they can count anything they want, but these 10 things definitely do not need to be done for them. Will cost!
We know how difficult it is to overcome this superstructure: the peasant must be fed! You need to create comfort in the house! Pleasant atmosphere All this is fine, of course, but why on earth should you do it? You will be surprised, but not with any. There is no innate feminine desire to feed everyone around and constantly wash the house. It’s just that when you were little, your mother taught you how to do it (because her grandmother taught her at one time). And when you did it, your mother probably praised you. And that’s all. In this case, you are no different from the smiling Labrador who was given a cookie every time he performed the command “sit”: he is used to the fact that it is pleasant to obey, because they will give you something tasty for it. So you too – you are used to the fact that a cleanly washed floor is a guarantee of praise from the person dearest to you. From Mom. This is called positive reinforcement. Great training method, yeah. But you’re not a dog.
And he is not your mommy. And this means that they will not positively reinforce you all your life: very soon your economic exploits will be taken for granted and indignant, why do you have the audacity to occasionally not perform them? Where is the …