Motivation

We slept by accident. In the morning
I was doing something, calling someone,
and maybe half an hour later I noticed her eyes.
Thick hair, high cheekbones.
I remembered how we fell asleep yesterday.
Before that, last night.
How long we chatted about the eternal.

Spit. And mini. Long legs.
The way of joking about God all the time,
a tight T-shirt, a zip in the back,
moans on the freeway.

– Probably enough to stagger already.
Are you even eighteen?
– To me? Sure. A lot more.
– Perfectly. Can you go?

And now – naked in the morning light.
He looks so unusually wise,
so strange that he doesn’t feel like eating.
Is talking:

– I am your death.

And for some reason I believed it right away.
hammered into logic, reasoning,
did not even take out Occam’s razor,
but took it and asked directly:

– When?

– Not that very soon.
At least another forty years.
Maybe more. Do not be afraid. I will not eat.
I’m small at all.

– And I asked. I asked you!

– You have an adult death.
Do not be afraid. I don’t want to hurt you.
I just went in earlier.

You are so afraid, afraid of me,
you are getting dumber from day to day, you
do not sleep until you are stupid , you beat your muzzles
– you will die like that before you die.

You smoke, blow, read rubbish,
all the time rude, constantly drunk,
like talented and rough,
but in fact you are afraid of life.

So that’s it. Don’t talk about “no death”.
I am. I like the color black.
Cats. Stories. And flowers.
And I like you.

I’m leaving now. But you people, understand:
your angel of death is your guardian angel.
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How often do you make promises to loved ones, and then don’t keep them? Sometimes the hustle and bustle of life makes you forget about those who really care about you. Sometimes there is not even time to stop and just think about those who sincerely love and wait for you. And if in an instant you allow yourself to forget about these people, about the family, who knows how all this can turn out …

This story is about how the father of a large family, already a grandfather, decided to teach a lesson to his busy children.

Every year he waited for them at Christmas, decorating the Christmas tree, setting the table, choosing a festive outfit for himself … But every time the children said that they could not come, promising to do it next year. The years passed …

Grandpa grew old alone. Nobody came and did not fulfill their promises. He took decisive measures, after which all relatives received a letter with sad news. They jumped off their seats and immediately arrived … What happened?…

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On the Web, wherever you stick, you will surely come across an article in the spirit of “10 things that men want from a woman,” and it will certainly emphasize that the woman who will give them all this, men will consider ideal. And we tell you that they can count anything they want, but these 10 things definitely do not need to be done for them. Will cost!

Play hostess

We know how difficult it is to overcome this superstructure: the peasant must be fed! You need to create comfort in the house! Pleasant atmosphere All this is fine, of course, but why on earth should you do it? You will be surprised, but not with any. There is no innate feminine desire to feed everyone around and constantly wash the house. It’s just that when you were little, your mother taught you how to do it (because her grandmother taught her at one time). And when you did it, your mother probably praised you. And that’s all. In this case, you are no different from the smiling Labrador who was given a cookie every time he performed the command “sit”: he is used to the fact that it is pleasant to obey, because they will give you something tasty for it. So you too – you are used to the fact that a cleanly washed floor is a guarantee of praise from the person dearest to you. From Mom. This is called positive reinforcement. Great training method, yeah. But you’re not a dog.

And he is not your mommy. And this means that they will not positively reinforce you all your life: very soon your economic exploits will be taken for granted and indignant, why do you have the audacity to occasionally not perform them? Where is the …

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So the New Year has come, which means that soon Christians will celebrate the bright holiday of the Nativity of Christ. What things are better to avoid, and what, on the contrary, can and should be done on January 7 – read in our article.

Christmas has been celebrated since ancient times. Usually, on this day, believers visit church and read prayers for the health of all relatives and friends. It is highly recommended to devote this day to good and positive activities that develop spiritually!

What can you do for Christmas

On the feast of the Nativity of Christ, one should offer prayers to the Higher Powers, asking them for favor and mercy to all people. If possible, visit the church and attend the Divine Liturgy. You can light a candle and offer words of gratitude at home in front of your icons.

You can wash and go about your daily activities during Christmas if they are aimed at self-satisfaction and not entertainment. Work is also not considered sinful if the forces are directed to earn money for food and basic necessities. Wash your clothes only as needed if the matter is urgent.

Painstaking work such as knitting, embroidery and sewing is also appreciated. Labor has always been held in high esteem. If this is not entertainment and leisure, but a work or a gift to a loved one, the matter is considered God-pleasing and is allowed on any church holidays.

Traditional Christmas divination also takes place at this mysterious time, but the church does not approve of occultism and does not advise to get carried away with secret knowledge and look into the future. For everything there is the will of God, and according to his commandments it is worth building your life path.

Close relationships between spouses …

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Imagine: you are sitting in the company of new acquaintances, colleagues, or even the parents of your half. Everyone is silent because they don’t know how to start a conversation. The silence becomes unbearable, and you think you can hear the ticking of a clock. This situation can be changed by asking the right questions.Question 1. How do you know X?

Option. How did you get to this party?

A simple question helps to establish what you have in common with the interlocutor. This is the easiest way to connect and find a topic to discuss.

In the worst case, you can always be amazed at how different roads you came to the same party. And this is a reason to ask new and new questions.

Question 2. What exactly do you mean?

Option. Never heard of this! How it works?

Actually, we don’t really like asking and clarifying. Because then we look stupid and uneducated. It seems that they have overlooked something that everyone else has known for a long time.

The tactic here, however, is to feel like an enthusiastic rookie. Then your questions will be pleasant for the interlocutor. In addition, you will ask about what everyone around you is interested in knowing, and this will make the conversation even more enjoyable.

Question 3. Why did you decide to do this?

Option. How did you get into this industry?

People love to talk about themselves. Such a question provokes the interlocutor into a story, from which you can isolate individual details, so that you can later use them to develop the conversation. You might find out that you studied at the same university or worked in the same industry. And you can continue an interesting conversation for both of you.

Question 4. What do you like

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